You have found a sex professional who feels right for you, contacted them, and arranged a meeting. Once the nervous wait is over and the day finally arrives, you walk up to their door (or nervously pace behind your door, if they’re coming to see you). What happens next? An escort booking is just like a real-life date. You meet someone, get to know them, flirt, and get intimate. There is, however, a lot more certainty than on a regular date. Because you are paying for this experience, you don’t have anything to prove – you don’t have to look or act a certain way to get laid.

Escorts in Essex always ensure you have a great time as long as you treat them with kindness and respect. As you keep going through your session, here is everything you can expect from hiring an escort in Essex.

Before the Date

Your hotel room or home should be tidy if you’re meeting your escort there. It also means a clean bathroom since you will likely spend time there freshening up before and after your play session. Just like on a real-life date, you’re going to make the best impression if you’re freshly groomed, well-hygiene, and dressed appropriately.

Arrival of Your Escort

Here, just play nice. You don’t have to be awkwardly friendly. Just be who you are, but ensure you’re friendly enough for them. Also, when they arrive or when you arrive at their place, give them some time to relax. Maybe you could offer them a glass of water or show them around your house? Let them put their bags down, use the bathroom, and set out any equipment they might need.

The Payment

It’s simple. Give them the fee right away. A tip would also be great. Just note that most escorts lot prefer a nice envelope of cash over a messy wad of notes. If the lady needs to check on the worker, they may need to contact their driver or a friend – please don’t take this personally; it’s something that needs to be done with every client. Getting sexy, grabby, or kissy with them before the fee is paid is rude and will make them uncomfortable.

Getting Used to It

After the meet-and-greet, what happens next? As with a regular date, you’ll spend a little while getting to know your escort before you begin the sexy stuff. I mean, if I’m paying for the time, shouldn’t we just skip right to the sex? I have found that good sex is never rushed, and when you meet someone new, you need to take some time to get comfortable around them. As a result, when you do get intimate, it will feel much more natural and enjoyable. To relax before getting naked, spend some time getting to know your escort if you suffer from anxiety around sex.

Sexing Up

It’s time to get sexy! But how does it all work? The best way to get sex going is to follow your escort’s lead. If you’re unsure what happens next or how to get sex started, ask – it’s better than just ‘making a move.’ Being kissed or grabbed without warning can startle us, and that’s not sexy. Start gently, with a gentle touch and some long, flirty eye contact. Then ask for what you want. Ask, “Can I make out with you a little?” or “How about some sexy stuff?”

How Sex With an Escort Looks Like

Getting laid depends on your escort and what you are both comfortable with. You’re allowed to ask for whatever you want – there’s no expectation that you’ll both spend hours having sex. A blow job or hand job is fun (and still counts!) You’re allowed to ask what you want – there’s no expectation that you’ll both spend hours having sex.

Bringing the Session to a Close

In general, your booking will conclude with some cuddling and chatting. Your escort will often say goodbye after 10-15 minutes free at the end of the session for one or both of you to take a shower and gather their things. Your escort may need to contact their driver (if they’ll visit you). There’s no need to promise to book again, and there’s no pressure to tip unless you want to. So that’s it, folks. As you sit down, pour yourself wine, and reflect on the sexy fun you’ve just had, you’ll have some great memories to remember your experience by.